Crossing the Line

I know that we've only just begun this blog-land journey. But, I have something that is weighing on my heart pretty good. 


I have a current situation that could be easily remedied. But, there is another party involved. This other person seems less than interested in doing the right, moral, and even legal thing. Honestly, I have no clue why. Really. 


In dealing with this situation, I am left to ponder this. At what point is a person crossing the line from being a good Christian? As a Christian, I am doing my best to be persistent, patient, understanding and kind. I want to treat this party in the manner I wish to be treated. However, my patience is quickly running out. IF I decide to take legal action, is that behaving in a Christian manner? Or am I not following the word of God? 


I know I am to forgive, which I have. But, if the act continues, do I just continue to forgive or do I take action? What kind of action do I take? Something that could be embarrassing to the other party (subject to their perception)? 


There is also a third, possibly fourth party that could be involved (unbeknownst to them). Do I issue a call to action? They might be able to get results that I have not been able to garner. But, is that the Christian thing to do? 


If I am seeking guidance from another person, is that considered gossip? Does intent have anything to do with it? 


This has been a tough predicament. Not necessarily the situation, but contemplation of the best way to handle it. I want to live my life to glorify Him. I want Him to tell me He's proud of the way I dealt with it. 


I guess the real answer is to pray about it.